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Tiny Tip: Tweet your Wedding Plans

While I don't encourage couples to turn on their phones on The Big Day, I do embrace the use of technology on the days and months leading up to it. Image Courtesy of: Twitter Sign up for a Twitter account that is specific for your wedding. Then tweet away. Ask opinions on colors or the menu, let people know where they can find you in the days leading up to the wedding, and reconnect with guests in 140 characters or less.

Edible Centerpiece

Have you seen this? Image Courtesy of: Martha Stewart An edible centerpiece. And it's so lovely and colorful! How about recreating this as an awesome alternative to the traditional floral centerpiece? Here's how: *1. DITO MIX 20-piece cutlery set *2. VÄNLIG Glass *3. VÄNLIG Pitcher *4. SLOM Bottle with stopper *5. BARFOTA Candle dish (use as a dinner plate) *6. Porcelain 5" Appetizer Bowl Set of 4 *7. Ramie Table Runner in Natural *8. Home Formal 4pc Napkin Set in Gold *9. OSTLIG Planting tray

Tiny Tip: Daddy/Daughter Dance

Listen, I am not a big fan of most of the hokey-ass traditions that are done at weddings. But the Daddy/Daughter Dance. I. Am. So. There. Love that shit. Image Courtesy of: Digital Protalk Skip the bouquet toss (ugh.), nix the reception line (so long and so boring), and blow off the champagne toast (pricey and most everyone only drinks a sip) but for the love of God/Allah/Jennifer Love Hewitt - save the dance! There is just something about this tradition that is all sweetness and some of the weddings best photos come from it. If embarrassed to dance an entire song with just you and dad - try this twist on the old tradition. About a minute into the song, have the announcer invite all daddies and daughters out on the dance floor. It makes for a really fun and lovely moment.

Garland Round-up

I have been seeing so many excellent garlands at weddings and parties that I just had to do a round-up of them for ya'll: Image Courtesy of: Cheri Messerli Tacky plastic garlands have never looked so chic! Image Courtesy of: Dottie Angel Great way to use up those old scraps of paper and fabric (tutorial here)! Image Courtesy of: Project Wedding Tissue paper is cheap and comes in a ton of colors. Tissue paper + garland = awesome and budget-friendly wedding decor (tutorial here)! Image Courtesy of: Jordan Ferney Another super cute and cheap tissue garland (tutorial here). Image Courtesy of: inchmark Simple and elegant dots look great at any wedding and in any color. Image Courtesy of: Purl Bee My all time favorite (I made one for The Boy's birthday party). It doesn't take much fabric to make a lot of garland (tutorial here)!

Tiny Tip: The Nest Magazine

The Nest, the website for newlyweds, has the best magazine. Filled with great recipes, decor ideas, financial advice, and relationship articles - this magazine is a great investment for the modern (and newly) married couple. Image Courtesy of: The Nest And while $14.99 for only 4 issues is a bit much (I'd ask for it as a wedding or shower gift) - it is filled with loads of great stuff that you will use and enjoy. In fact, I have purused this magazine quite a lot and I think that getting a subscription before the wedding day is a really sound decision. Lots of the articles will handle many relationship issues that (I feel) should be discussed pre-marriage. This is not a sponsered post. I just really love this magazine and wanted to share it with you.

Freebies: Downloadable Stationary

Wanna do your invites, save-the-dates, and RSVP cards for next to nothing? Image Courtesy of: Download & Print Well, Download & Print wants to help you! Simply download any of their gorgeous FREE! invites (they are formated as Word files), fill in your own information, and print (or send the file off to a printer). Boom, bam, done.

Tiny Tip: Dish Towels as Cloth Napkins

There is literally nothing that says that a cloth napkin must be a cloth napkin. It can be anything from a scrap of pretty fabric to kitchen towels. Here's a great example: Image Courtesy of: Sunday Suppers This lovely French inspired brunch used these towels from Ikea as cloth napkins and it worked brilliantly. Try it at your wedding and see if anyone even notices (then keep all the towels for your linen closet - you'll never have to worry about running out!).

Ikea Round-Up

Ikea has debuted their summer line and it has some really great stuff (like that's hard for them...). A lot of the new summer product would work beautifully for a garden, retro, or beach wedding or at any of the parties leading up to one. Here's a few of my favorites: SODA Drinking Straws ($1.99 for 200): GODIS MIX Glasses ($6.99 for 6): KRAM Paper napkins ($1.99 for 50 pack): MIDSOMAR Disposable cups ($1.49 for 18 pack): BÄRBAR Tray ($5.99): OSTLIG Bucket ($7.99): SOLIG Solar-powered light chain (8 globes for $19.99): BLADET Vase ($6.99): ROTERA Lantern for tealights ($4.99): BARFOTA Block candle ($4.99 for 3):

Tiny Tip: Clean Your Ring

From the moment it hits your ring finger to well after The Big Day - you're engagement ring is going to see a lot of action. Everyone. Everyone. Everyone asks to see it. Image Courtesy of: Martha Stewart So make sure it sparkles - it's easier than you think:

1. Clean it often (this will help remove the build up of lotions, skin oil, and everyday dirt).
2. To clean: Soak the ring in a solution of warm water and mild dishwashing liquid then scrub with an old toothbrush.

It is really that simple (and cheap).

Candy Centerpiece

I love flowers. Really, truly adore them (I think that has a lot to do with growing up in Alaska and only having flowers for a few short months every year). And nothing says "wedding" like a lovely floral centerpiece. But, what if you don't like flowers or are allergic or you're on a super duper tight budget and can't afford them? How 'bout this? Image Courtesy of: Martha Stewart CANDY CENTERPIECE!!!! Best. Idea. Ever. It is simply a few lollipops, some candy sticks, and a great deal of Pop-Rocks (as the base/vase filler). For an elegent or eclectic look - go for the rich urns pictured above. For a more clean look - use these vases from Ikea. For a fun, playful look - use mismatched teapots or empty planting pots.

Tiny Tip: Green Table

Interested in creating a greener table for your reception? One of the easiest ways is to use only organic or locally farmed foods for your menu. Image Courtesy of: The Kitchn Other options:

• Use cloth napkins, fabric scraps, or kitchen towels.
• Use a potted plant instead of flowers.
• Use only the necessary silverware and glasses.
• Use borrowed dishes.
• Use edible garnishes.

Adopting any of these options for your wedding will cut down on waste and also (possibly) help your bottomline. Excellent meet excellent.

Awesomeness in a Glass

A great way to save in the wedding budget is to trim down the bar. Do not do a cash bar. I repeat. DO NOT DO A CASH BAR. It is tacky - would you ever host a party and ask people to bring their own beverage? No? Well, don't do it at your wedding either. Plan for the drinking but make effective choices with the offerings and keep the bar budget managable. The easiest way to accomplish this is by limiting the selections. One red wine, one white, two beers (one light and one regular), and one cocktail.* Estimate the set amount each person will drink, buy that amount, and (if it runs out) have the bartender make a tactful excuse ("safety first!") and switch people to water or soda. Here's some good cocktail suggestions from Serious Eats: Strawberry Vanilla Agua Fresca: White Peach Summer Bellini: Bottega's Limoncello: Raspberry Margarita: *Remember your non-alcoholic drinkers and provide water, soda, and a virgin option of the cocktail.

Tiny Tip: Cute Pinwheel Favor

Pinwheels make the cutest favors at weddings. Kids love them and grown-ups become kids when they play with them. Image Courtesy of: Paper Source Slip a handful into a vase as a simple and colorful centerpiece or tuck one inside the napkin at each table (maybe write each guest's name on a corner for a placecard/favor). Click Here for step-by-step instructions from Paper Source.

Printing: Gettin' it Done

One of the best ways to save money is to create and print your own wedding paper goods (see an excellent downloadable paper goods timeline here). The actual creating is as economical as it gets. Just your time + Photoshop or an inexpensive PFD file purchased from etsy. But, as you well know, there is always a catch. Printing from home seems cheap but, in reality, is quite expensive! The ink, the papers, the practice runs... it all adds up. So what to do? Image Courtesy of: Paper Source Well, send it out. Let someone else deal with the practice runs (and the cutting everything to size!). Here's a basic list of printing companies that have been recommended to me by various graphic artists: iPrintFromHome.com — This site uses watercolor-ish paper and is best for the more artist wedding. VistaPrint.com — Ultra low, low prices, good product, but iffy customer service. MaverickLabel.com — Great for printing stickers and labels. OvernightPrints.com — Good customer service and they do rounded corners. GreenerPrinter.com — Eco-friendly printing but expect to pay a bit more. 48HourPrint - Lots of options and great prices. For the absolute best deal, always ALWAYS Google "[CompanyName] discounts" for coupon codes and special deals.

Tiny Tip: Stationary Timeline

Great little freebie from Erin over at Leo on the Loose: Image Courtesy of: Leo on the Loose A full timeline of the whens and whats you might need for your wedding and assorted parties in the year leading up to it. It's a free download with crop marks and sized to fit right into your regular planner. Awesome. Click Here for the download.

From Project Wedding

OMG. Sometimes I stumble upon something in the blogosphere that is just the coolest thing ever. And then i share it with you: Image Courtesy of: Project Wedding IKEA CENTERPIECES!?!?!?! It's like the author and I were separated at birth. This project is everything that this blog stands for: cheap, simple, and reusable (or a nice tax write-off post-wedding). Click Here for more images and a supply list. Viva Ikea!

Tiny Tip: A Bit of Marriage Advice

Sweet little post from marta writes. Image Courtesy of: About.com Some really lovely marriage advice. Printed up all pretty and framed, this could be a great wedding gift.

Freaking Awesome Bridal Shower

So the online magazine Nonpareil is fabulous. Gorgeous wedding inspiration and FREE DOWNLOADS! Image Courtesy of: Nonpareil And this spa party as a bridal shower is divine. Plus, FREE DOWNLOADS. Seriously. Why are you still here? Go. Read. Download. Party.

Tiny Tip: Tutus for Little Girls

A simple tutu is an easy way to fancy up any little girl attendant's dress for The Big Day. Image Courtesy of: Prudent Baby It'll be tutu cute (come on, you've gotta give me that one)! Just slip one under any dress from your flowergirl's closet and BOOM! Instant glam. Let's hear it for tulle! Click Here for step-by-step directions.

Recreating this Nautical Theme into a Wedding

This very sweet and grown-up nautical themed baby shower could be the basis for a really cool beach club wedding recetion. Image Courtesy of: Martin Family Times It's a nice twist on the traditional ropes and gold chains nautical theme. Perfect for an elegant waterside luncheon or simple champagne brunch. Here's an (inexpensive) version: *1. Teal Blast Pacific Sailboat 17" Sailboat Yacht Model *2. Package of 30 Real Starfish *3. Shell Acrylic Bowl Set of 4 *4. LENDA Dish towel *5. BERTA RAND Fabric *6. Medallion Catalina Serving Bowl *7. Porcelain Cake Stand with 4 Dessert Plates *9. Ultra Green Biodegradable Cutlery Pack *10. Natural Clamrose Seashells

Tiny Tip: Drink Right

Stay well hydrated on The Big Day. Drink lots of water or juice and skip the booze and caffeine until after the ceremony. Image Courtesy of: Taste Tourist And if you're wearing make-up, it's best to sip your beverages through a straw. That will protect your lipstick and make it less likely that you'll dribble on your outfit.

Doin' a Design*Sponge Wedding on the Cheap

I really, really love Design*Sponge. And I really, really love this drop dead gorgeous wedding. Image Courtesy of: Design*Sponge Who knew that moss and birdcages could look so chic? I think that this would be a lovely wedding theme for any season but especially for late summer into fall. My (inexpensive) version: *1. Bird Ornaments *2. Silver Star Cupcake Wrappers *3. White Platter *4. Acacia Platter *5. SOLIG Solar-powered light chain *6. TINDRA MYS Scented block candle *7. TORKA Decoration ball, set of 8 *9. IKEA PS KRONA Bowl *10. Decorative Moss Vase Filler 18-pk. *11. 2 Gazebo Birdcages

Tiny Tip: Planning Your Cycle

Wanna have the greatest wedding ever? Image Courtesy of: IAO Gallery Plan your period. Pick a date (and remember the honeymoon!) when you'll not be menstrating. Or begin a form of birth control that wil allow you to safely skip it. Either way, bloating and cramping is no way to enjoy your day so pick those wedding dates carefully.

Try an Apple Themed Wedding

Have you guys seen this great apple themed party? Image Courtesy of: imprintables I just love the bright greens and the really fresh feeling of this party. So perfect for a March/April/May wedding. Here's my version: *1. Lime Green Gingham Paper Bags *2. Mint Julep Taffy *3. Lime Green Hot Polka Dot Baking Cups *4. Stripe Border Lime Green Lunch Napkins *5. Ultra Green Biodegradable Cutlery Pack *6. Green and White Paper Straw *7. Lime Green Paper Tags *8. Lime Green Sanding Sugar *9. Solid Citrus Green Hot Cold Cups *10. Solid Color Balloon Lanterns

Tiny Tip: Reuse Old Bottles

At most weddings, the guests have two major concerns: A) will there be enough to eat? and B) will there be enough to drink? Image Courtesy of: Young House Love You can easily take care of the last issue by mixing up vats of drinks before the wedding day and decanting them into individual (old) wine or glass soda bottles. Use these tips to remove odors and labels from old bottles. Then pat yourself on the back for being thrifty and envirnomentally-friendly.

Etsy Finds

Some really cute finds from etsy this week. Check 'em out: Butterfly Princess Klip (from The JulReeBox) - $6.99: Image Courtesy of: The JulReeBox What a cute treat for a flowergirl! Love Birds Wedding Print (from One Reverie) - $15.00: Image Courtesy of: One Reverie Framed, this would work great as a signable guest "book". Chrysanthemum Flowered Vintage Inspired Earrings (from Gingeroni1) - $9.00: Image Courtesy of: Gingeroni1 What a cool and unique attendants' gift - you even have the option to choose your own color! Short Blusher Birdcage Veil (from Brenda's Bridal Veils) - $19.99: Image Courtesy of: Brenda's Bridal Veils Available in 29 colors - you (almost) can't make a it for less! Puff Flower Pocket Mirror in Red (from: Madison Craft) - $5.00: Image Courtesy of: Madison Craft Literally dozens of colors and designs to choose from PLUS lots of multisale discounts - this is an excellent idea for attendant thank you gifts. Custom Printable Water Bottle Label Digital Design (Cherished Times) - $6.00: Image Courtesy of: Cherished Times Don't feel like designing your own water bottle labels - purchase this (customizable) file and print them out at home.